I had a great conversation the other day with a caller of mine who’d dropped off the grid–for a quite understandable reason.
(I’ll understand if you’d rather listen to this post than read it. Click here to hear the audio of this post!)
See, he’d gotten married and was trying to channel all of his sexual and kinky energy into his marriage. I completely understood when he needed to tend to himself and his new bride. There’s no reason to fear your phone Mistress’ wrath when you stop calling for very valid reasons.
I was surprised to hear from him last week, but truthfully I was delighted. He was one of my favorite callers (and no I’m not just saying that!)
He didn’t want to talk about all of the crazy things we used to talk about, at least not directly. He wanted to talk about some other stuff I knew about, a situation he was having a hard time coming to terms with. So we put kink aside for the duration of our call and we talked about what was going on with him.
Here’s the thing: I do a lot of dirty talking here on my blog. I’m outrageous, I’m nasty, and I’m very domineering. But I’m also a woman with a big heart.
You may find it hard to believe, but you’re not likely to meet many people who care more about you than I do. In fact, all of the crazy outrageous things I say and do stems from my understanding and my affection for you. I know what you need, and I know that submissive men are full of contradictions. Well, so are phone Mistresses.
Sometimes two very different things are true at the same time. For instance, I can admire you for the man you are and the things you’ve accomplished and I can reduce you to a whimpering mess all at the same time. I can know you’re strong and weak, and that one doesn’t negate the other.
So don’t let all of my big talk scare you away. You can trust me to try and understand you on a very deep and satisfying level. If you need a real connection, you’re safe with me.